When faced with tough decisions about your own life after a divorce, putting the child's needs above your own often makes those decisions much easier. About 6 years ago I had been divorced from my son's mother for about 10 years. We had both been re-married and her second marriage had also recently ended in divorce. She called me up one morning and said she needed to talk. I had no idea what was coming. She was always rather unpredictable in that regard. I took it in stride and agreed to meet … [Read more...]